{"id":10702,"date":"2019-04-14T19:36:22","date_gmt":"2019-04-14T15:36:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/?p=10702"},"modified":"2020-03-14T11:51:07","modified_gmt":"2020-03-14T07:51:07","slug":"kimdir-muq%c9%99ssir-%c9%99hm%c9%99d-sahidov-14-yasli-elinanin-intihari-bar%c9%99d%c9%99-yazdi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/?p=10702","title":{"rendered":"Kimdir m\u00fcq\u0259ssir?! – \u018fhm\u0259d \u015eahidov 14 ya\u015fl\u0131 Elinan\u0131n intihar\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 yazd\u0131…"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Son g\u00fcnl\u0259r ard\u0131c\u0131l s\u0259f\u0259rl\u0259rd\u0259 oldu\u011fumdan intihar ed\u0259n Elina balam\u0131z bar\u0259d\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rimi b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 imkan\u0131m olmad\u0131. Bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259n\u0259 yazan insanlara bildirm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, 14 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131zc\u0131\u011faz\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259sind\u0259n d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli he\u00e7 n\u0259 ola bilm\u0259z h\u0259yatda.<\/p>\n

C\u0259miyy\u0259t olaraq, d\u0259rhal g\u00fcnahkar ovuna \u00e7\u0131xma\u011f\u0131 da d\u00fczg\u00fcn hesab etmir\u0259m. T\u0259bii ki, bu intihara s\u0259b\u0259b olan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259ri a\u015fkara \u00e7\u0131xarmaq – onlar\u0131n f\u0259aliyy\u0259t v\u0259 ya f\u0259aliyy\u0259tsizliyin\u0259 h\u00fcquqi qiym\u0259t verm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r! H\u0259m d\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259qdir!<\/p>\n

Amma bu intihar \u0259slind\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259ki d\u0259rin sosial-m\u0259n\u0259vi bo\u015fluqlar\u0131n oldu\u011funu bir daha ortaya \u00e7\u0131xarm\u0131\u015f oldu. Q\u0131saca yazacam…<\/p>\n

1) Ail\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sevgid\u0259n, diqq\u0259td\u0259n k\u0259narda saxlamamal\u0131y\u0131q…<\/p>\n

2) Valideyn-m\u0259kt\u0259b m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini, habel\u0259 valideyn-valideyn m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini daha s\u0131x \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 qurmal\u0131y\u0131q…<\/p>\n

3) Kims\u0259nin \u015f\u0259xsi v\u0259 \u00f6z\u0259l h\u0259yat\u0131na burnumuzu soxmamal\u0131y\u0131q – h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131r. Kimin valideynl\u0259ri ayr\u0131l\u0131b, kim ne\u00e7\u0259nci d\u0259f\u0259 ail\u0259 qurub v\u0259 bu kimi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r f\u0259rdl\u0259rin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 aiddir v\u0259 biz bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259ri q\u0259tiyy\u0259n m\u00fczakir\u0259 predmetin\u0259 \u00e7evirm\u0259m\u0259liyik…<\/p>\n

4) M\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 direktordan tutmu\u015f, m\u00fc\u0259llim v\u0259 psixoloquna q\u0259d\u0259r fiziki, m\u0259n\u0259vi v\u0259 psixoloji durumu yerind\u0259 olan milli ruhlu insanlar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 t\u0259sad\u00fcfi adamlar\u0131 t\u0259yin etm\u0259k yolverilm\u0259zdir.<\/p>\n

5) C\u0259miyy\u0259t olaraq, ictimai r\u0259yi m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259ndirm\u0259liyik, amma \u0259sla v\u0259 \u0259sla d\u0259qiql\u0259\u015fdirilm\u0259mi\u015f dezinformasiyalar\u0131n arxas\u0131yca k\u00fcy\u0259 getm\u0259m\u0259liyik.<\/p>\n

6) M\u0259tbuat olaraq, hans\u0131sa \u015f\u0259xsd\u0259n xo\u015fumuz g\u0259lmirs\u0259, yaranm\u0131\u015f v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti f\u00fcrs\u0259t bilib insanlara \u015f\u0259r-b\u00f6htan atmamal\u0131y\u0131q, median\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259fsizliyini qoruyub saxlamal\u0131y\u0131q.<\/p>\n

Bu m\u0259qam\u0131 t\u0259sad\u00fcf\u0259n yazmad\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnki, m\u0259rhum Elina il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 diqq\u0259timi \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n bir m\u0259qam da m\u0259kt\u0259bin yerl\u0259\u015fdiyi S\u0259bail rayon icra hakimiyy\u0259tinin ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 Xalid\u0259 Bayramovan\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131n hallanmas\u0131 oldu.<\/p>\n

M\u0259n Xalid\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131 \u015f\u0259xs\u0259n tan\u0131y\u0131ram v\u0259 yaranm\u0131\u015f v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m h\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259ri b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259yi \u00f6z\u00fcm\u0259 borc bilir\u0259m:<\/p>\n

a) Xalid\u0259 Bayramovan\u0131n v\u0259zif\u0259 borcu idi ki, hadis\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 g\u0259lsin v\u0259 g\u0259ldi. \u00c7\u00fcnki, o, t\u0259kc\u0259 icra hakimiyy\u0259ti ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fcavini deyil, eyni zamanda azya\u015fl\u0131lar v\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 sosial layih\u0259l\u0259r h\u0259yata ke\u00e7ir\u0259n ictimai fiqurdur v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 bir anad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

b) Az\u0259rbaycanda s\u0259hiyy\u0259 sistemi o q\u0259d\u0259r b\u0259rbad v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259dir ki, r\u0259hb\u0259r bir \u015f\u0259xsin z\u0259ngi, lori dild\u0259 des\u0259k s\u0259rt \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259pinm\u0259si olmasa, Hippokrat and\u0131 i\u00e7ib Allaha and\u0131 unutmu\u015f h\u0259kiml\u0259rimiz \u0259m\u0259li f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259si deyill\u0259r. Bunu ham\u0131m\u0131z \u015f\u0259xsi t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259mizd\u0259 g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f\u00fck v\u0259 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f\u0131q. M\u0259hz Xalid\u0259 Bayramovan\u0131n g\u0259lib real v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti g\u00f6rd\u00fckd\u0259n sonra S\u0259hiyy\u0259 Nazirliyin\u0259 z\u0259ng etm\u0259si, h\u0259kiml\u0259ri \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmas\u0131 v\u0259 onlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 dayanaraq, balaca Elinaya yard\u0131m etm\u0259l\u0259rini t\u0259min etm\u0259si faktd\u0131r v\u0259 istintaq da bunu bilir. 3-5 d\u0259qiq\u0259lik videoda bu prosesi tam g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259rik…<\/p>\n

c) Amma problemin k\u00f6k\u00fc bu deyil. Problemin k\u00f6k\u00fc yuxar\u0131da sadalad\u0131\u011f\u0131m m\u0259qamlard\u0131r, balaca Elinan\u0131 intihara q\u0259d\u0259r s\u00fcr\u00fckl\u0259y\u0259n neqativ hallard\u0131r ki, bunu aradan qald\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

H\u0259r h\u0259ft\u0259, h\u0259r g\u00fcn onlarla Elina intihar bar\u0259d\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, intihara c\u0259hd edir – al\u0131n\u0131r ya al\u0131nm\u0131r, bu, ayr\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir. Amma onlarla yeniyetm\u0259 balalar\u0131m\u0131z bu fikr\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r. Bunun g\u00fcnah\u0131 yuxar\u0131da sadalad\u0131\u011f\u0131m m\u0259qamlard\u0131r, h\u0259r hans\u0131 f\u0259rd deyil.<\/p>\n

Son \u0259v\u0259zi…<\/p>\n

Bug\u00fcn Az\u0259rbaycanda \u0259n geni\u015f yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u0259n\u0259n\u0259 m\u0259tbuatdan v\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n istifad\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k, d\u0259rin k\u00f6kl\u00fc probleml\u0259ri bir f\u0259rdin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 atmaqla, h\u0259min problemi unutdurmaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bina yan\u0131r, bir n\u0259f\u0259ri h\u0259bs edirl\u0259r, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 qapan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ticar\u0259t m\u0259rk\u0259zi yan\u0131r, bir n\u0259f\u0259ri ittiham edirl\u0259r, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 ba\u011flan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Elina intihar edib… indi bir n\u0259f\u0259ri ittiham etm\u0259liyiks\u0259, o bir n\u0259f\u0259r el\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycan c\u0259miyy\u0259tidir. Elinan\u0131n intihara q\u0259d\u0259r g\u0259ldiyi yolda dayanan v\u0259 sad\u0259c\u0259 tama\u015fa ed\u0259n bizl\u0259rik…<\/p>\n

Odur ki, q\u0131sa bir zamanda h\u0259yata bax\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259liyik, bir-birimiz\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259timizi d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259liyik… Bir-birimizi sevm\u0259liyik, s\u00f6ym\u0259li yox!<\/p>\n

Sevgil\u0259rl\u0259,<\/strong>
\n\u018fhm\u0259d \u015eahidov<\/strong><\/p>\n

14 Aprel 2019-cu il, Doha, Q\u0259t\u0259r<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Son g\u00fcnl\u0259r ard\u0131c\u0131l s\u0259f\u0259rl\u0259rd\u0259 oldu\u011fumdan intihar ed\u0259n Elina balam\u0131z bar\u0259d\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rimi b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 imkan\u0131m olmad\u0131. Bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259n\u0259 yazan insanlara bildirm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, 14 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131zc\u0131\u011faz\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259sind\u0259n d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli he\u00e7… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12698,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[62,90,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10702","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktual","category-mullif-yazilari","category-article"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/elina-3.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10702","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10702"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10702\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12701,"href":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10702\/revisions\/12701"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12698"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10702"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10702"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shahidov.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10702"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}